How To Apply Conversational Hypnosis To Easily Shift The Thinking Of Others

What would it be like to have the capability to casually move somebody's thinking so that they would be able to remove barriers, overcome obstacles, and easily agree with whatever idea you present to them? How man ways do you think you could use this power in business, your personal life, or your love life? Do you think this could be useful?

Learning the techniques of conversational hypnosis is really all about learning two simple, but powerful, concepts. One is to simply get a good handle of the other person's model of the world, and to be not only congruent but also flexible in your own.

What do I mean by 'model of the world?' A model is simply a short hand way of estimating that way something really is. A small plastic model of a complicated aircraft is a representation of the same thing, only smaller, and less complicated. Models of climate changes are made based on estimations and assumptions about complex weather patterns. When scientist first come across a new phenomenon, they first develop a model to go by. As they continue to refine their understands of the underlying phenomenon, they update their model as well.

Each one of us is carrying around our own particular model of the world. The world is far too complex and has far too many billions of pieces of data floating around for us to get a handle on anything other than a small slice of what we take in through our senses.

So in order to effectively persuade and influence others, it helps to be as neutral as possible. Don't assume their model of the world will be the same as yours. Don't assume that they will feel the same about certain things as you do. By being neutral, you will get a more accurate taste for the way they see the world.

When you have an accurate model of their world, now you can carefully slip into it, and start speaking their "language." By doing so you will gain an incredible amount of trust and rapport, and you will speak with authority. You will sound as if you really know what you are talking about.

Once you establish that, it's only a matter of carefully showing them different perspectives and ways of looking at things so that they can remove any limitations or obstacles they may have had. Once that happens, then you will realize how powerful a communicator you already are.

The most powerful, and subtle way to persuade somebody is to simply go into their model of the world, and slowly pull them back into yours. If your model of the world is sufficiently open and set up to see opportunities where others don't, it will be an irresistibly enticing shift for them, and it will happen naturally without any need for language patterns or trickery.